The latest TV public service message produced by
4parents.gov tries to support parents in talking to their kids about sex, and about "waiting 'till marriage" to have it.
I've been reading through the criticisms this ad has been receiving on such liberal blogs as
Think Progress (not the most uplifting material, mind you, and often very vulgar)
. It's amazing how hopping mad they get about the idea of the government promoting abstinence. (And also: what exactly is so wrong with telling parents to talk to their kids about sex?)
Their first general motif is "no one can be expected to make it to marriage without having sex, therefore the only option is to give them prophylactics." In the same sentence as criticizing "fundamentalists Christians", they themselves operate on a fundamentally false
a priori.Their second claim is that a recent federal report (
large PDF file) concluded that current abstinence programs have had no effect on rates of sexual activity. From this report they have decided that
all abstinence programs are futile, thanks to their enlightened humanism.
Actually, what the report demonstrates is that the current abstinence programs, trying to operate within a deluge of opposed mass media, lack of parental involvement, and virulent advocacy from groups like Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the like ... are not working.
Reading through the report's Conclusion, there's plenty facts in it that the liberal blogs fail to mention. For instance, abstinence programs
do not - as some have claimed - increase the chances of contracting an STD (p. 83). Neither is it accurate to say that there have been no gains in promoting abstinence. Instead, the report claims these gains are not statistically significant.
There are also gains in correct knowledge about STDs and the myths surrounding birth control (many teens apparently have been led to believe that birth control pills prevents STDs - it doesn't. And they accuse us of spreading misinformation).
The liberal blogs also, conveniently, fail to mention that final summary paragraph of the report:
This evaluation highlights the challenge faced by programs aiming to reduce adolescent sexual activity. Nationally, about half of all high school youth report having had sex, and more than one in five students report having had four or more sexual partners by the time they complete high school. One-quarter of sexually active adolescents nationwide have an STD, and many STDs are lifelong viral infections with no cure. Findings from this study speak to the continued need for rigorous research on how to combat the high rate of teen sexual activity and its negative consequences.
Given this situation, the liberals' answer is ... more condoms?! My, that's facing facts honestly.
Granted, I'm not trying to endorse abstinence programs as they are currently taught. I know very little about the situation. I do know, however, that addressing the cause of a problem (sexual promiscuity) is better than addressing the symptoms of a problem (teen pregnancy and rampant STDs), so - in theory - abstinence, simply from an abstract point of view, would seem better suited to addressing the probem.
Of course, at the same time, abstinence cut-off from an adequate understanding of human sexuality, marriage, family, anthropology and theology is a very weak construct. No wonder it's failing.
Labels: abstinence, culture of death, religion and politics, secular culture